20 factors that determine a woman's orgasm（11-20）

11. The relationship between post marital orgasm and pre marital orgasm experience

The most significant factor affecting the frequency of sexual climax after marriage is whether it is achieved more or less during premarital sexual activity.
About 36% of the women we surveyed had never reached orgasm before marriage. Whether it's masturbation, sexual dreams, intimate caresses, premarital sex, or premarital same-sex behavior, they have never had such an experience. Among such women, 44% were unable to reach orgasm within the first year of marriage. Among women who have only had a limited number of orgasms before marriage, this proportion is only 19%. Among women who have experienced at least 25 orgasms before marriage, this proportion is only 13%.

12. The relationship between post marital orgasm and premarital sexual intercourse

Among various sexual experiences before marriage, the one most closely related to post marital orgasm is premarital sexual intercourse, especially the type that reaches orgasm. For example, among women who have had premarital sex but have not reached orgasm, 38% to 56% of them also cannot reach orgasm in the first year after marriage. Although this proportion decreases day by day after marriage, 11% to 30% of them still cannot reach orgasm until the end of the 10th year after marriage.
On the contrary, among women who have had premarital sex and reached at least 25 orgasms, only 3% of them did not reach orgasm in the first year of marriage, and this percentage decreased to only 1% in the following years. That is to say, more than half of women who engage in sexual intercourse without orgasm before marriage are also unable to reach orgasm after marriage. This is 10 to 20 times higher than the proportion of women who have both sexual intercourse and orgasm before marriage but do not reach orgasm after marriage.

13. The relationship between post marital orgasm and pre marital intimacy induced orgasm

In this regard, there is also a significant correlation between the two. 35% of women who have never reached orgasm through intimacy before marriage have not reached orgasm in the first year of marriage, but among women who have reached orgasm through intimacy before marriage, this proportion is only 10%, and the difference remains for at least 15 years after marriage.

14. The relationship between marital orgasm and premarital masturbation

The correlation between the two is not as obvious as premarital sex and intimacy mentioned earlier, but there is indeed a connection. Among women who have never masturbated before marriage or have never achieved orgasm as a result, 31% to 37% of them were unable to reach orgasm in the first year of marriage, and this proportion only decreased slightly in the following 5 years; Among women who have reached orgasm through masturbation before marriage, this proportion is only 13% to 16%.

15. The relationship between education level and sexual activity

The cumulative incidence and frequency of sexual intercourse within marriage are basically the same among women with different levels of education. But we also found that if we examine the number of women who have reached orgasm during a 5-year period, there are significantly more educated women in any 5-year period.

16. Having a strong desire, wanting it, and feeling relaxed is the easiest way to get into a state

According to a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 72% of women experience a 50% increase in orgasms and a 40% decrease in cortisol levels driven by active desire, indicating that psychological relaxation can effectively eliminate inhibition. According to data from the Kinsey Institute, in a state of both anticipation and non anxiety, vaginal blood flow velocity increases by 35%, and the intensity of sexual pleasure at the peak of oxytocin concentration is 2.3 times that of the normal state.

17. The other party performed well, was very considerate, and had excellent skills.

One interviewee said, "The best experience was with my fourth boyfriend, who is a photographer and quite romantic, gentle, and cool looking. Being with him often brings unexpected surprises. ML is a pretty beautiful thing, he always finds a comfortable place to play music, drink a little wine, and most importantly, he pays attention to my feelings. He is not the kind of person who falls asleep after finishing. He will put a pool of warm water to take a bath with me, and that feeling will never be forgotten for a lifetime.

18. The two of them blended emotions, had romantic foreplay, felt mutual understanding, and were deeply cherished by each other.

This usually happens between passionate lovers, but there are also special examples, such as the experience of a interviewee: "So far, the best time I feel was with a foreigner. I had been divorced for two years, and he may have seen my needs. At the hotel where he stayed, at nine o'clock in the evening, he poured me a beer, and we chatted on the sofa first. We both had a good feeling for each other. He kissed my ear, kissed my cheek, and hugged me tightly. At that moment, I felt so beautiful that I had never felt this kind of gnawing because he understood your feelings.

19. The mood of ceremony and celebration, reunion after a long separation, special days, etc.

One interviewee said, "The best time was when we hadn't seen each other for a long time. When we met in a restaurant, the burning desire of dry firewood seemed to engulf him, and he was so strong that when he entered, he couldn't help but feel happy, trembling, and embracing, hoping for closer contact and friction. This time was the best, and the climax could be two or three times, especially when he skillfully guided him. The climax was so beautiful.

20. When faced with an atmosphere of excitement and adventure.

For example, cheating, concealing people's eyes, fear of being found, and so on, also tend to stir up a strong sense of pleasure: "The best time is to drive in a foreign field, while doing, there is a great sense of liberation."